You think I give a shrink?

April 7, 2008 at 1:11 am (spark)

I just HATE it when people get ‘judgemental’ about things around me. I might have a hundred squabblings with my parents, a thousand kattis with my sister, million of bitchslaps with friends, but that doesnt give YOU the right to get judgemental about THEM. You can have your views and opinions on ME, but dare u run afoul with them man.

I am self-satisfied and unconcerned on what you’ve got to say. Sometimes it just doesnt make any sense to me, but I hear you out just because I respect you, your opinion. Just the way I would want YOU to respect what I think.

I am very possessive about my loved one’s self-respect. What right do you have to point fingers on ‘them’? Dont violate the trust I have in our friendship. The faith I put on you. If all you want to do is just step over the relationship we share, u think I even give you a shrink?

3 Comments

  1. karthik said,

    What right do you have to point fingers on ‘them’?

    Ammadi…that was a missile hit :)

    But then, we all are judgemental. If i say “you are judgemental”, then I think that very statement is a judgment. And, if and when i have to form an opinion about “them” then your views on “them” gives me the direct and most apt data to form an opionion, esp since your close to them. Who will know better about your parents than you/?? so what u think about them will shape what i think about them.

    the pity is that, most often, opinions are formed involuntarily. we dont make a conscious effort to form them. they just get formed. so one cant do much about it.

    where does that leave your blog and me? I have already prejudiced an opinion that u have fights with ur parents and kattis with ur sis and bitchslaps with ur friends. And since i dont know anyone else other than u, i think there must be something wrong with all of them :D LOL

  2. the princess said,

    Lol! I do get the under-lining idea. I better be careful when I vomit my feelings out here. I use this medium, only when I feel that I am filled with so much rage, that no-one could probably relate to what I am saying. Moreover this medium doesnt have means for DIRECT criticism. Only honest FEEDBACK! All the more better for someone like me, who likes her own answers :)

    On second thoughts. Your comment was longer than my post :D

  3. Sudha said,

    Baby…
    You’re such a gem

    Keep it up… [:D]

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